Why I Love Homeschooling
Last week’s post, I realized (after hubby pointed it out), was a bit of a bummer.
You are probably asking yourselves why I do it at all, given the requisite addiction to Pepcid and Hyzaar (anti-hypertensive, for those of you who don’t speak medical).
So, why I love homeschooling:
1) Field trips. I get to see every new exhibit at the Museum of Natural Science, the Health Museum and a bunch of other museums I didn’t even know existed. Plus, cool stuff like plays that just happen to fit into the curriculum. I don’t have to cajole anyone to go with me, because I have a built-in, command performance companion.
2) Doctors’ appointments. No fighting over 4 pm slots and ending up with a scheduled visit the next year on the blue moon. Anytime they can fit us in, we can go. REALLY handy for braces, by the way. Especially with Stretch, who is on the infinite program. I think my orthodontist lost money on him (but since this is number 5 in our family, I’m not really worried about his retirement program).
3) Curriculum.
Stretch’s current 8th grade curriculum: English, History, High School Theater Arts, Precal, College Algebra, High School Math Modeling, High school level biology, chemistry, and physics.
Tell me he could get that at a public school. Tell me that a public school could pack as much into his day as I do.
My kids hit high school with enough credits to be Sophomores, or possibly even juniors. We’ve done all the bullcrap classes, for credit, so there is room in their schedules for all the science and math, plus fun electives. The Goth is taking creative writing and psychology, plus debate, this year.
4) Conversations like these (during math modeling, already yet):
Stretch (looking at little stick figures of girls and boys on a number line in his textbook): Why do they always represent girls with skirts? Girls hardly ever wear dresses.
Mom: They have to do something to tell them apart. From the front in a silhouette, boys and girls look pretty much alike.
Stretch: Especially the Goth. (long hair, earrings–I can see that).
Mom: True.
Stretch: We could turn them sideways. Boys and girls stick out in different places.
Mom: Yes, but our society isn’t quite ready for that yet. Besides, can you imagine the conversations moms would have to have with their little kids on the way to the potty???
Yep. That’s why I keep coming back, bottle of Maalox at my side.
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20 Comments
Stephanie Barr
Wednesday, 16th September 2009 at 6:17 pm
I applaud your homeschooling, seriously. But I should note that you can have those conversations if your kid is in public/private school, too. As long as you're bothering to take an interest in it.
However, I got nothin' on 1-3. The curriculum alone is persuasive.
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TheMother Replies:
September 16th, 2009 at 6:41 pm
Sure, you CAN have those conversations. But the fact that the arise so spontaneously, and so often, is what I enjoy.
Kids come home from school and hole up in their rooms. Engaging conversations get rarer as they get older. Pity, too, since they get more interesting as they get older.
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Michele
Wednesday, 16th September 2009 at 6:55 pm
Well, it looks like my homeschool adventures are about to resume, at least for one kid. The only thing the school can offer my middle child is French, which I *can* teach, but really wish she wanted to learn German or Latin or Spanish, the languages I studied. So it looks like I'll be learning French along with her. (When you know enough of three languages plus English, you know enough to figure out the language structure to study it on your own. I just prefer my daughter had a person who already spoke French to teach her.)
Okay, so language aside…she knows the science, the English, the supposed history which they call "Humanities," and the computer science (they're teaching keyboarding this year…whereas she's been writing computer programs for three years). PE? She took sixteen hours of ballet a week until she broke her arm. Family and consumer science? She does her own laundry, is an apprentice to a professional chef at a local bistro, has taken all the Wilton cake decorating classes and can make a wedding cake to make you cry, and can sew her own clothes. She also has a part-time business selling jewelry she makes. Is she a super-kid? Certainly not…just interested in many, many things.
But I agree…homeschooling is wonderful, albeit exhausting and challenging. I love that it is flexible, and I love how we can really explore history and science, rather than just cram for some test.
And that orthodontist thing? I know I've personally put all of my orthodontist's kids through college…and my oldest appears to be spending most of her adolescence in braces, too, although we finished paying for them a while ago. I still have one kid to go yet, too.
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TheMother Replies:
September 16th, 2009 at 7:38 pm
If you know Latin and Spanish, French will drive you nuts. The structure is the same, but the words are just off enough to stymie you. (tried to learn French and Spanish in the same year–BAD idea).
Have you seen the Rosetta Stone software? It's really, really good. Might be an excellent supplement to your daughter's education.
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Wendy Replies:
September 16th, 2009 at 8:37 pm
We had a Rosetta stone sample thing. Apparently we don't learn that way. To me it seemed more like working out a puzzle than actually learning anything. I figured out the puzzle to answer all the questions properly in Czech, but I couldn't tell you 5 seconds later what the word for "man" was. It took me several tries to even figure out that they were trying to tell me that word meant "man". Even hubby couldn't make heads or tails of it. They guy who figured out conversational Russian when he visited Moscow for 7 days.
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Helene
Wednesday, 16th September 2009 at 8:44 pm
Well, you gotta admit that the idea of turning the stick figures sideways would actually work well. And to represent the pregnant teens, the stick figure could have a huge baby bump. Okay, okay….that's going to far perhaps.
The field trips alone would be worth me homeschooling my kids!
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Becca
Thursday, 17th September 2009 at 12:33 am
You are definitely my hero for getting all that done. And here is my gripe for the night, why do I as a parent have to do my 5th grade daughter's homework with her. Honestly the teacher sent it home as a together project, how to teach your child to spell better. Really?? My daughter won second place in her whole school last year in the spelling bee, but she needs me to do a group project with her about spelling? No thanks. I signed that I helped her do it and sent it back to school. Am I horrible or what?
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TheMother Replies:
September 17th, 2009 at 1:03 am
That's what I would have done. We can be horrible together.
I'm tired of fifth grade. I've done it five times.
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Becca
Thursday, 17th September 2009 at 12:33 am
You are definitely my hero for getting all that done. And here is my gripe for the night, why do I as a parent have to do my 5th grade daughter's homework with her. Honestly the teacher sent it home as a together project, how to teach your child to spell better. Really?? My daughter won second place in her whole school last year in the spelling bee, but she needs me to do a group project with her about spelling? No thanks. I signed that I helped her do it and sent it back to school. Am I horrible or what?
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Lawyer Mom
Thursday, 17th September 2009 at 1:59 am
Ooooh. The Goth is on the nat'l forensics league debate team? I want to meet him. ASAP. Because that is like the totally non-nerdiest , sexiest thing to do in the entire universe.
What's that? I sound biased? You want to know if did the NFL, too? Well, err, yes. But I am so normal. So very normal.
Goth and the Mother, let's rendezvous, soon! Because someone needs to take on Jimmy Carter.
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TheMother Replies:
September 17th, 2009 at 2:21 am
I was on the NFL debate team, too. Went to state in High School on the abortion platform–funny, very few kids in rural Tx knew what to do with that one!
The Engineer and the Grouch dabbled. The Goth is serious. Yes, he's sexy. Maybe that's why the girls are lining up around the block?
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sara @ dom. chal
Thursday, 17th September 2009 at 3:11 am
if you turned my stick figure sideways? It would stick out on the bottom (bum) and not at all on the top. Sad but true.
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Stephanie
Thursday, 17th September 2009 at 4:39 am
I'm homeschooling my son this year for preschool and am I getting the fits from my inlaws! They can't stand it. It doesn't matter that I didn't want to send him to a church preschool and that's all there was in the area; they think I should have signed him up anyhow.
Come on, it's preschool! I can give him social time with friends, he has karate classes so he's learning some confidence and I can sure handle that level of academics.
I don't know that I'll be a regular homeschooler. My daughter is happy in public school, if a bit too social for her teacher's preferences. On the plus side, the teacher has already noticed that my daughter is particularly imaginative for a second grader. That's something I refuse to train her out of. That so many kids her age have lost their innate creativity drives me nuts.
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ck@badmommymoments
Thursday, 17th September 2009 at 9:35 pm
Out of curiosity, what does your daily schedule look like? Do you spend the same amount of time each day on the same subjects, or do you mix it up?
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TheMother Replies:
September 17th, 2009 at 11:48 pm
We start every morning working together. We do vocab, some proofreading/grammar, math drills, a 30 minute essay (if there isn't one to be done for a specific class, I give him a prompt). Then we go through his three math courses together, and each day we cover a different science subject–he reads the assigned chapter in advance, I give lecture, he gets problems due the next week.
Then he gets the rest of the day to do his self-guided English and History, as well as any science/math that's due the next day.
We are usually done with our together time by noonish, if we get started at a decent hour. He spends the afternoon working alone.
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mrsbear
Friday, 18th September 2009 at 2:48 am
Just Stretch's 8th grade curriculum had me floored. I'm having a hard enough time helping my daughter with her Algebra 2 homework. Precal? Pass the Pepcid. Although I completely understand the pleasure you get out of it, not to mention the benefits your children are reaping. And all those great outings seem to balance out the need for pharmaceuticals.
Your kids sound hilarious, btw. I'm sure they're a lot of fun to be around when they're not driving you to drink.
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TheMother Replies:
September 18th, 2009 at 2:37 pm
Would I have kids who didn't have a sense of humor???
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sara
Sunday, 24th January 2010 at 4:13 pm
I'm still excruciatingly bitter at my parents for not letting me homeschool.
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